It’s right there in the title, but I never saw it coming. The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up changed my life.
A couple months ago, I noticed the book’s exploding popularity and was intrigued by author Marie Kondo's claim that not one client who completed her process has ever relapsed into clutter. Not one? Challenge accepted.
Now, Mullins Projects ain’t messy! No one would ever walk into my home and think it was cluttered, and I have to be well-organized to do what I do. I went in thinking if I picked up a few tips and got a nice summer cleaning out of it, great.
As I read on, driven by Kondo's dedicated, positive encouragement, I found myself becoming more and more excited about the prospect of “tidying thoroughly and completely, all in one go.” Her KonMari Method is relatively simple: you tackle your possessions by category (clothes, books, papers, miscellaneous/household, sentimental), building one pile at a time in the middle of a room. You hold every item in your hands and decide if it “sparks joy." If it makes you happy or you consider it an essential part of your life, keep it. If not, discard it!
Less than two weeks later, I finished: every item of clothing, every book and magazine, every piece of paper, all of my media, accessories, electrical, personal and household supplies, every photo, every sentimental letter and gift, every item in every box, drawer, and closet. I’ve even gone through all my digital files and email (which isn’t discussed in her book). I typically discarded 50-66 percent of my possessions in a given category, except paper, where I eliminated over 90 percent of it.
Try to imagine your own home if it were less than half as full as it is now. I no longer have any items in long-term storage, buried in cardboard boxes, plastic bags, or containers in the recesses of my closet. Everything I own is easily accessible and visible to me. Because I’ve reduced to only the possessions which bring me joy, they are simple to manage, and not a day goes by where I don’t look at one of my shelves and smile.
I’ve never bought into any kind of self-help method before, and I didn’t even think tidying was “self-help” until I experienced the dramatic results. Most significantly, I’ve lost all the small daily anxieties, the tasks that pile up and preoccupy us, make us feel scattered, or keep us up at night. I don’t become half as irritated about inconveniences as I used to - traffic, lines, poor service. These disruptions of order no longer disrupt the order I’ve achieved within.
It was time-consuming to be sure, at times overwhelming, yet I’m confident almost anyone can do it, and I want to tell you it’s worth it. Besides, if you finish your tidying and feel like your life hasn’t changed, you still end up with a tidy house! It’s win-win.
I have so much more to say, and as I’ve talked to friends and loved ones about it, I believe I can contribute my own experience to help others who want to give tidying a go but might need a little more clarification and a friendly push. I’d like to announce my next Mullins Project: I’m going to write a companion guide to Tidying Up! I’ve never done anything like this before, so I’m really excited to see what I come up with. It may be a few months, so stay tuned.